Patty (woodycakes) wrote,

No More Drama In 2010

It seems I keep making the same resolutions every year. This year, I'm gonna get as specific as I can with these resolutions. At least I'll have some tangible proof of some change if I do get to accomplish these things. But really, I don't wanna pressure myself with these goals. They're more like loose guidelines. There's too much external pressure already, I don't wanna create extra drama this year.

  • Wear a bikini in public
    This is sort of a two-fold goal. Cause first, I have to actually get into shape to fit into a bikini. And second, I'll need to have more confidence to actually go out in public in this. I hope I become less of a lazy girl and actually work out more this year.

  • Start Acting My Age
    I act like a child most of the time -- at home really -- and though it's fun and all, I guess I should be a tad more mature this year. I'm still in my early twenties but I think it would be best for me to grow up slightly. I'm not even going to go into the specifics of this as I'm too embarrassed to even admit to it, but yes, it's about time.
    ETA: noted has convinced me otherwise. plus the less goals, the less fail.

  • Build a Work Appropriate Wardrobe
    In connection to the one before this, most of my clothes make me look like a college student -- which I no longer am. I think I need more work ready clothes without looking too old. Second, I wanna feel good about myself so I have to wear things that make me feel good. Third, it'll force me to not skimp on myself. I'm all about saving but I make no hesitations buying books, why do I always skimp when it comes to clothes. Fourth, it'll help me find more of my personal style which I feel I lack sorely.

  • Be Able to Answer the Question, "What do you want to do?"
    I know I'm already working but it doesn't necessarily mean this is the job for me. I want to be able to figure out what the hell it is I really want and though I know this will take time, at least I should start getting to know myself more cause honestly after 22 years, I feel like I still don't know me very well.

  • Go With The Flow and Let Things Go
    I love planning and if things don't go according to plan, I tend to freak out a bit. I should just chill and not worry too much about things that go that aren't quite planned. no, this does not mean I will get an 'unplanned pregnancy' this year. It just means I'll freak out less if I don't get to do things I planned (so stop being anal with the lj). Also, I don't want to pine too much over boys this year. I think I've pined enough for a million lifetimes. I refuse to entangle myself in self-inflicted drama this year.
And if you can't figure out what you wanna do in 2010, try out this Resolution Generator. I guarantee you something you can try to do in 2010.

Here's to a Drama-free 2010!

Tags: dreams and goals
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